What The Years Have Taught Us.

It all started when we Turned 13. The sweetness vanished away and the aggression started growing in. We became emotionally super unstable. Talking about the mood swings, well people started thinking I'm unapproachable and stopped coming to me. Our physical appearance started bothering us alot. An inch out, would kill us sometimes. 

Now here in this phase, there are two types of people. One, who become socially super active and love going to parties and meeting people and two, who isolate themselves from everyone and later blame others for not inviting them. And finally hate yourself alot.

Being a kid we thought comparisons are okay but growing up it started hurting us alot that "Why the hell am I being compared to that moron, I'm better than him! " Reading quotes get you depressed and you start doing stupid stuff on social media just to gain attention. Posting senseless stories of you and your friends faking yourselves, commenting on an issue you don't even know about, taunting your ex friends or partners through quotes, Start faking yourselves in front of the world, instead of living in  the moment, you keep clicking pictures, etc.

The next phase is the most beloved one.
You start understanding when you're falling. You start spending "Me Time" and love enjoying your own company. Rather than spending time with talking to the people you don't even know, on social media you go out with the people you missed on when you were on social media. 
You take a decision of lessening or quitting social media to live a real life and know what's happening outside the fake world.
You make yourself get out of the comfort zone and do things you want to and start embracing your flaws. Suddenly you start loving closed doors but open windows, hate rain but love clouds and accept yourself and others as it is.
And Finally LOVE YOURSELF. 

   
                                                          -Shriya.